Monday, March 26, 2012

Why is this even a debate?

You know, I don't know much about this whole same-sex marriage debate, but really it doesn't seem like it's something that has to be very thoroughly read into as it's pretty straightforward  we're all the damn same. Why is it so hard for people to understand that?

It's an equality debate all over again. Sexism and racism are in the past  well, idealistically. Women, indigenous people and African-Americans are just some of these cast-out groups of the past that we now wonder what we were even thinking degrading them, giving them less rights than ourselves.

I say "ourselves" even though I would have fallen into the "women" category had I been a part of that generation, but really "ourselves" would in this sense refer to those who are allowed to have the same rights as the greater public. By disallowing someone to have the same rights as everyone else, you're discriminating once again against the person that they are.

How many times do we have to be reminded that we're all human? I can just see an image of the future  once everyone figures it out  of same-sex marriage, and people wondering why we ever made such a fuss over it; in the same way we wonder now why women hadn't the same rights as men, or indigenous children were taken from their homes, or segregation happened because of the shade of someone's skin. Really, you're punishing someone for being who they are. Shouldn't we be free to love who we love and marry that person if we wish to?

To put it simply: this is stupid. There shouldn't even be debate over it. I believe people should continue to fight for what they want, and those standing in the way (who, by the way, are in no way even affected by it) should just give up because you're simply repeating the mistakes of the past. And having apologised for those mistakes in the past is all being taken back, because if you had been sorry for discrimination, you wouldn't be discriminating again.

I'm sorry about those who disagree with this post, but if you are one of those people, you and your closed mind can find the exit at the 'X'
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1 comment:

  1. I commend you for calling it what it is: discrimination, pure and simple.

    The fact that you make no mention of religious arguments in this post is truly a refreshing read! Usually when the topic of same-sex marriage comes up, the discrimination is hidden behind a religious excuse claiming that same-sex marriage demeans the sanctity of marriage. This excuse is merely a cover-up used by those who discriminate to feel as though they are justified in doing so.

    Good on you for writing it this way. I completely agree!

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